Did you ever fail in your life ? then my heartfelt congratulations to you , you are on the right track in your life . You know what does failure mean ? it means the FIRST ATTEMPT IN LEARNING (FAIL). The only people fail who try to learn, if you can understand and analyze it properly then ‘failure is the only opportunity to begin again more intelligently‘.
When people fail they loose themselves completely, failing is not end its part of success , you cannot win if you haven’t fail. When you are on a journey of success and doing something different then the usual things, you fail more often. You have to accept your failure and learn from it.
You know what ? Universe has its own way of teaching us the things , it will make us learn which we do not want to , it will make us love the things which we don’t love , it makes us do the things which we never wanted to do , unless we do not learn what we are supposed to ,it never leave us .
If you want to achieve something good you start observing the things around you very keenly , you will observe all the things that happened around you is for reason to make you understand something very important which will help you in your journey.
We all human beings like and love moving very comfortably and undisturbed in our lives , we have programmed our minds in such a way that we don’t want to take risks, we fear to think out of contexts , we do not want to do any unusual things in life and avoid taking risks. Why do we hold on ourselves in achieving something different ? why we always want to move so comfortably in our life ? this is because we have programmed our mind in certain way and we want to execute the things in certain manner.
We are so afraid of thinking new , we all have sticked to certain pattern so called societal standards, we always try to fit in and expect the things in similar fashion all the time. Moving soo comfortably in your life without discovering your potentials and without taking any risks makes you a weaker person, it does not make you an independent strong individual.
Now stop pitying yourself , get up, move out , explore your inner potentials , make yourself strong and start taking calculated risks, program your mind to think differently and uniquely, every individual on this earth has the capability to do the things extra ordinarily , the only difference between a normal person and successful man is the ability to choose , many choose to give up on their dreams only few work on it and succeed .
Did you notice that the people who have succeeded in their life has taken maximum risks, they had dealt with many ups and downs and failed so many times in their life . successful people do have heartbreaks , they fail , they get disturbed , they broke , get frustrated , they cry, infact I feel they deal with maximum negative emotions and failures compared to us , but what makes them stand different then us , IT IS WHAT THEY DO AFTER THAT !
“YOU DON’T DROWN BY FALLING INTO THE WATER , YOU DROWN BY STAYING THERE”. Its nature’s law of feeling low and lost , sometimes we don’t understand why do we feel that , everything around us will be perfectly alright but still we feel we have lost , we feel devastated and feel very lonely and helpless, it happens with me manier times and very frequently.
I feel when this happens to us this is the best time to explore the depth of our emotions , we get to know our self more deeply and try to discover many things about our own-self which we would have not done otherwise . When you are happy and comfortable in your life , your mind does not allow you to think beyond that context , and you feel good about all the things that are happening around you.
But did you notice in the times of hurt, pain ,depressed or into any other negative emotion you rather love to spend time alone , you do not want to speak anyone and always prefer to be quiet and think over the things what went wrong . Now I think this is the time to discover your capabilities your potentials and this is the time when you start building the courage and strength to overcome your setbacks .
If you really want to understand the pattern of emotions in your life then Don’t you think this feeling of low and sad helping you to raise into an strong individual ? Becoming strong and successful doesn’t mean that you haven’t failed , it means you have a capability of raising up every time you have fallen.
Lets start looking everything that happens around us happens for a reason no matter how hard and painful it is , every single situation your going through in your life want you to learn and become a better version of yourself . The battle of becoming good and successful is not with others , you are your own competition ,you have to grow stronger then yesterday and be strongest tomorrow then today .
I believe very strongly and experienced myself, happy life teaches you nothing but a difficult life teaches you the real essence and taste of life . Now for example we all love visiting waterfalls right , we like the nature we enjoy seeing how the water flows down and how it moves making pleasant sound, this you can relate to the happy moments of your life , you always want to be like this enjoying happily and you love to live all those moments and cherish for your lifetime .
But when the same water flows further and gets into the ocean it finds a different meaning for it , now it attains a huge dept , its so calm and quite and carries silence in it, now this can be related to the times you have failed the moments you have broke , hurt sad and frustrated now this teaches you that life cannot remain in the same phase at all, it has ups and downs u have the days were u feel happy and broken , its part of life and this is how it is designed , you cannot question the nature’s law, you have to just accept and learn from your mistakes.
By knowing all the different phases of life It’s very clear that your growth lies in your own setbacks, that doesn’t mean you should stop embracing the happy moments , things happens to make you understand that failing is not the end it is knowing the another way that wont work , it says you this is an opportunity to begin more wisely, so whenever u fail next be happy and embrace it with the positive mindset and learn from it .
Its absolutely ok to feel anger , sad , low and depressed it doesn’t make u weak it only makes u human , but when you go through this kind of negative emotions do not stay long into it, try not to carry that low emotion in you for longer time , when you go through the failures next time ,cry out loud , take your frustration out , pour your heart out, then get up, wipe yourself, dust yourself and start again, say to yourself “I FOUND A REASON OF STARTING THE THINGS DIFFERENTLY AND I WILL WORK ON IT”.
FAIL AND FAIL , FAIL BIG , RAISE BIG ! failure changes your method of working not your goal “THOSE WHO DARE TO FAIL MISERABLY CAN ACHIEVE GREATLY” , you don’t have to be good at your work all the time be consistent and you should always remember that you have to fight through some bad days to earn best days of your life , when you go through all this and succeed then you have tasted your success right ………because trust me ‘when we fail it tastes like shitttt and it literally does’.
You feel I am explaining all this because I am successful !
No , I am not successful yet , but I am on the way to be successful soon , I could write out all this because I have myself experienced it with many many setback and failures , it took me sooo long to understand the pattern of emotions and life , but today I believe and understand very truly the things that have written here . trust me today I feel soo amazing of all that happened to me all the painful things has change me into a stronger person I m today , I am very grateful for everything and to everyone in my life ……….’BELIVE IN THE POWER OF ALMIGHTY GOD AND HOPE IS THE ONLY WAY TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS’ .
Wonderful quotes on failures and success:
- The bigger the failure the greater the lessons .
- Failure is the lesson learned and success is a lesson applied
- Sometimes by loosing a battle you find a new way to win the war.
- Be strong because things will get better , it may be stormy now , but it never rains forever.
- Your success doesn’t taste good if you haven’t tasted failure.
- Every successful story has started with small consistent steps and ideas.
- What you do everyday matters then what you do every once in a while.
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