FA!L BIGGER ……….RAISE STRONGER !

FALL AND FALL ………..FINALLY RISE LIKE A PHONEIX ! (phoneix is a mythical bird which rises from its own ashes)

Did you ever fail in your life ? then my heartfelt congratulations to you , you are on the right track in your life . You know what does failure mean ? it means the FIRST ATTEMPT IN LEARNING (FAIL). The only people fail who try to learn, if you can understand and analyze it properly then ‘failure is the only opportunity to begin again more intelligently‘.

When people fail they loose themselves completely, failing is not end its part of success , you cannot win if you haven’t fail. When you are on a journey of success and doing something different then the usual things, you fail more often. You have to accept your failure and learn from it.

You know what ? Universe has its own way of teaching us the things , it will make us learn which we do not want to , it will make us love the things which we don’t love , it makes us do the things which we never wanted to do , unless we do not learn what we are supposed to ,it never leave us .  

If you want to achieve something good you start observing the things around you very keenly , you will observe all the things that happened around you is for reason to make you understand something very important which will help you in your journey.

We all human beings  like and love moving very comfortably and undisturbed in our lives , we have programmed our minds in such a way that we don’t want to take risks, we fear to think out of contexts , we do not want to do any unusual things in life and avoid taking risks. Why do we hold on ourselves in achieving something different ?  why we always want to move so comfortably in our life ? this is because we have programmed our mind in certain way and we want to execute the things in certain manner.

We are so afraid of thinking new , we all have sticked to certain pattern so called societal standards, we always try to fit in and  expect the things in similar fashion all the time. Moving soo comfortably in your life without discovering your potentials and without taking any risks makes you a weaker person, it does not make you an independent strong individual.

Now stop pitying yourself , get up, move out  , explore your inner potentials , make yourself strong and start taking calculated risks, program your mind to think differently and uniquely, every individual on this earth has the capability to do the things extra ordinarily , the only difference between a normal person  and successful man is the ability to choose , many choose to give up on their dreams only few work on it and succeed .

Did you notice that the people who have succeeded in their life has taken maximum risks, they had dealt with  many ups and downs and failed so many times in their life . successful people do have heartbreaks , they fail , they get disturbed , they broke , get frustrated , they cry, infact  I feel they deal with maximum negative emotions and failures compared to us , but what makes them stand different then us , IT IS WHAT THEY DO AFTER THAT !

YOU DON’T DROWN BY FALLING INTO THE WATER , YOU DROWN BY STAYING THERE”. Its nature’s law of feeling low and lost , sometimes we don’t understand why do we feel that , everything around us will be perfectly alright but still we feel we have lost , we feel devastated and feel very lonely and helpless, it happens with me manier times and very frequently.

I feel when this happens to us this is the best time to explore the depth of our emotions , we get to know our self more deeply and try to discover many things about our own-self which we would have not done otherwise . When you are happy and comfortable in your life , your mind does not allow you to think beyond that context , and you feel good about all the things that are happening around you.

But did you notice in the times of hurt, pain ,depressed or into any other negative emotion you rather love to spend time alone , you do not want to speak anyone and always prefer to be quiet and think over the things what went wrong . Now I think this is the time to discover your capabilities your potentials and this is the time when you start building the courage and strength to overcome your setbacks .

If you really want to understand the pattern of emotions in your life then Don’t you think this feeling of low and sad helping you to raise into an strong individual ? Becoming strong and successful doesn’t mean that you haven’t failed , it means you have a capability of raising up every time you have fallen.

Lets start looking everything that happens around us happens for a reason no matter how hard and painful it is , every single situation your going through in your life want you to learn and become a better version of yourself . The battle of becoming good and successful is not with others , you are your own competition ,you have to grow stronger then yesterday and be strongest tomorrow then today .

I believe very strongly and experienced myself, happy life teaches you nothing but a difficult life teaches you the real essence and taste of life . Now for example we all love visiting  waterfalls right , we like the nature we enjoy seeing how the water flows down and how it moves making pleasant sound, this  you can relate to the happy moments of your life , you always want to be like this  enjoying happily and you love to live all those moments and cherish for your lifetime .

But when the same water flows further and gets into the ocean it finds a different meaning for it , now it attains a huge dept , its so calm and quite and carries silence in it, now this can be related to the times you have failed the moments you have broke , hurt sad and frustrated now this teaches you that life cannot remain in the same phase at all, it has ups and downs u have the days were u feel happy and broken , its part of life and this is how it is designed , you cannot  question the nature’s law, you have to just accept and learn from your mistakes.

By knowing all the different phases of life It’s very clear that your growth lies in your own setbacks, that doesn’t mean you should stop embracing the happy moments , things happens to make you understand that failing is not the end it is knowing the another way that wont work , it says you this is an opportunity to begin more wisely, so whenever u fail next be happy and embrace it with the positive mindset and learn from it .

Its absolutely ok to feel anger , sad , low and depressed it doesn’t make u weak it only makes u human , but when you go through this kind of negative emotions do not stay long into it, try not to carry that low emotion in you for longer time , when you go through the failures next time ,cry out loud , take your frustration out , pour your heart out, then get up, wipe yourself,  dust yourself and start again, say to yourself “I FOUND A REASON OF STARTING THE THINGS DIFFERENTLY AND I WILL WORK ON IT”.

FAIL AND FAIL , FAIL BIG , RAISE BIG ! failure changes your method of working not your goal THOSE WHO DARE TO FAIL MISERABLY CAN ACHIEVE GREATLY , you don’t have to be good at your work all the time be consistent and you should always remember that you have to fight through some bad days to earn best days of your life , when you go through all this and succeed then you have tasted your success right ………because trust me when we  fail it  tastes like shitttt and it literally does’.

You feel I am explaining all this because I am successful !

No , I am not successful yet , but I am on the way to be successful soon , I could write out all this because I have myself experienced it with many many setback and failures , it took me sooo long to understand the pattern of emotions and life , but today I believe and understand very truly the things that have written here . trust me today I feel soo amazing of all that happened to me all the painful things has change me into a stronger person I m today , I am very grateful for everything and to everyone in my life ……….BELIVE IN THE POWER OF ALMIGHTY GOD AND HOPE IS THE ONLY WAY TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS’ .

Wonderful quotes on failures and success:

  1. The bigger the failure the greater the lessons .
  2. Failure is the lesson learned and success is a lesson applied
  3. Sometimes by loosing a battle you find a new way to win the war.
  4. Be strong because things will get better , it may be stormy now , but it never rains forever.
  5. Your success doesn’t taste good if you haven’t tasted failure.
  6. Every successful story has started with small consistent steps and ideas.
  7. What you do everyday matters then what you do every once in a while.

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CHOOSE YOUR WORDS WISELY !

ONE WORD THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

Choose your words wisely. Words are  the most important element of our life if we could understand and analyze it properly, if we couldn’t then its just mere group of letters. I believe the most powerful weapon that exists in this universe are the words spoken by people. Please choose your words wisely , it can change anything and everything around you. We should always be very careful with our words as we all know , once they are said they can be only forgiven not forgotten. Every word that we speak has the power to hurt or heal RAISE YOUR WORDS NOT YOUR VOICE , IT’S THE RAIN THAT GROW FLOWERS NOT THUNDER”.

Words can heal someone or hurt someone , it can construct or destroy someone , it can break you completely or it can make you love more.  But we fail to understand it and most of the times we damage our own serenity or completely destroy others without even noticing it .

When we speak we should always connect our words with good emotions and intensions, words with emotions in it never fail to understand , if you conversation is just to speak something without emotion into them, then it remain just group of words or information that you want to convey.

When you speak its not necessary that your words and lines are grammatically or verbally correct, it’s the intensions and emotions behind it should be right. I believe very strongly in my life and also understand the fact that, its absolutely true that when we speak someone we can change their thought process completely . words are the only thing we use to express our heart out and I am sure if they are used right then it is understood by anyone in this world. This is because the whole energy in the universe is created with positive thoughts and emotions.

If you really want to connect to the beautiful souls around you, then always add good emotions and intensions to your words , souls around us doesn’t understand the grammar but it does understand your emotions and positive energies so always do choose your words wisely . when I say wisely what does it actually mean ? it only means , analyzing the words you speak and also making good sensible decisions and judgments before its been spoken out.

Sometimes we fail to express ourself  because most of the times though our intensions and emotions are good but the choice of the words go wrong . it really doesn’t matter at all as long as it is connected with good energies . if you have spoke choosing wrong words but with good intensions , it will be sooner or later understood by the soul. Our soul has strong power of analyzing and identifying good and bad thoughts , positive and negative energies.

We always hear people saying that though we choose our words wisely, people accept it how they wanted us to hear , do not worry it is their choice , if they do not understand what u actually wanted to convey , it is them who has to be checked or corrected not you !

We should always keep our thought process clear , our thoughts build our own belief system and we act or react the way we think. We cannot act beyond our belief system so we have to make it strong and it is done with positive thoughts , thoughts are nothing but the group of words and information . words are the most powerful forces with all us human beings , we can use it constructively or destructively.

words are very powerful -choose your words wisely
IF YOU CANT BE KIND ………BE QUIET !

“ONE KIND WORD CAN CHANGE SOMEONE’S ENTIRE DAY, BUT ONE KIND WORD WITH RIGHT EMOTION AND INTENSION CAN CHANGE ENTIRE LIFE” do not always expect people to understand you, we have to do our job right. You have to understand their point of view first if you did, then they will definitely understand you as well. Did you notice that sometimes we feel so connected to some unknown person when we speak them  ,its because that person has created such an impact on your mind with his words, the words that he spoke you has very beautiful emotions and positive energy which made you feel good  about that person although you are meeting that person for the first time. Mainer times with some people whom we really do not connect at all though we spend lot of time with them, its because they do not carry any emotion or attachment towards us , they just use group of words to convey their information and also listen us to reply.

So don’t you think that we make our bonds , our relationships , our friendships or we choose our people to be connected with is only based on the words they speak ? because that is the first gesture or the action to know the person and we match with the people whose frequency matches with us no matter how much time we spent with them, now what do I mean matching the frequency ? it is nothing but matching out the thought process , emotions and belief system and how do we come to know about all these stuffs when there is exchange of words and ideas.

Do you agree that sometimes some words are so hurtful and so intense that cannot be forgotten for lifetime ? if words had no power in them then why do they hurt you so badly, then why it is painful to forget it, because sometimes words are spoken so intensively with so much of negative  and low emotions in it. If it was just mere group of words then it wouldn’t have bothered you, but it has emotions attached with it  so they definitely impact deep into your mind and heart.

I believe this world is full of mixed emotions , we have to deal with all kind of people , emotions , situations, sometimes good- bad , positive- negative , pleasing disturbing and so many more and we are not here to change others and it is very foolish to think that way , its very crazy to think that we can change the world out , you just change your thought process and your belief system , you just choose to be right and you be responsible for your own self. We cannot be responsible for others life , but If your words can make an positive impact then please try to speak for them.

Although We cannot reach out to all the people around us  to help them, but we should  try bringing positive change by spreading love and affection. When you speak to people make a good impact on their mindset , make them feel good about you and make them feel connected with your thoughts and emotions. You believe it or not your words will touch them so deeply and if it is filled with good intensions and emotions then they will remember you for rest of their life.

I believe in expressing my opinions only when I  genuinely feel it , I am writing this post midnight, and its  1:40am right now , I just thought of something suddenly and started writing this post . If I have just thought and haven’t expressed it right now then this post wouldn’t have been this intense , right the moment I feel every bit of word and I believe everything so strongly ,if this written later it would rather contain only group of words and information that I wanted to communicate.

To all my wonderful readers I truly understand that you are the people of wisdom, you are the one with positive mindset and beautiful emotions who believe in the things as of me ,so you have spent your precious time in reading out this content so patiently , thank you so much to all the beautiful souls out there who agreed and connected to this post .

I request you all to believe in the tremendous positive energy in the universe which flows and covers infinite distance and miles can change with your words so please do take care of it. If we truly believe the power of words then we bring wonderful physical changes in the universe .

I have written this post with the only intension of making you feel words can do anything and everything in this world so whenever you speak next CHOOSE YOUR WORDS WISELY!

Beautiful quotes on WORDS:

  1. “Remember your words can plant garden or burn whole forest down”.
  2. “ Its unbelievable how you can affect someone else so deeply and never know”.
  3. “Be sure to taste your words before you spit them out”.
  4. “Words matter and the right words matter most of all , in the end they are all that remain of us”.
  5. “When words are both true and kind they can change the world”.

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EASY STEPS TO CHOOSE OR SELECT A GOOD PROJECT TOPIC AND COMPLETE IT SUCCESSFULLY

easy steps to select project topic. confused to choose project topic
CONFUSED TO CHOOSE PROJECT TOPIC !

WELL BEGINNING IS HALF DONE !

How to choose or select a good Project topic is the most common problem faced by all the students atleast once in their education life ,from the point of start of choosing the Project topic to the end , students are not sure about it.

First of all we do not understand the basic meaning of Project , we all choose it without proper knowledge and we do it only for the sake of completing it as a curriculum or credits , most of us fail to understand the importance of Project topic and end up choosing wrongly.

This post will help you understand how to choose the Project topic or you can say Research topic for whatever education level you are at. The information given here is not confined to any particular degree , masters or any higher level of Research. Here you will understand a basic knowledge of selecting Project topic for any respective qualification.

NOW LET US UNDER STAND THE PROCESS, THERE ARE SOME SYSTEMATIC STEPS TO BE FOLLOWED TO WORK ON ANY PROJECT SUCCESSFULLY.

Firstly you have to understand what do we mean by PROJECT, project is an individual or collective work which is planned to achieve a particular aim or goal.

When we start doing the Project may it be in degree or master level , we find so many things getting stuck in our mind one at a time and we will be in lot of confusion to select the topic for our Project. Let us not get into this kind of the situation , the very first step will be to list out all the favorite subjects of your  choices  or if you are interested in some particular area or it could be even some familiar content or information  about the subject.

Do not leave your mind to think and expect it to come down to one particular topic , it is not possible because there are hundreds of topic where you can work on , so narrow down your selection and list only some of the areas which you are interested or familiar. For example : Its something that you are in middle of the ocean and figuring out the different possibilities of getting out , so at that point you have to narrow down different paths and start moving in some particular direction.

Once you make a list of the subjects or the areas , then start looking for which subject has the wider application and which is trending in the present technology, now doing this you again cut down or narrow down your selection  and arrive at some particular subject.

Now this subject again has many topics to work on , but do not worry you are at the right process of finding out the project topic , once you decide which subject to work on , list all the trending technologies and its applications which can help you to narrow down your further selection .

When you have listed down all the latest technologies and their application ,select some technology and application which you find interesting to work on and start collecting the information required , so how do you do it, by searching good content , journals and publications .

Get atleast 10 latest papers on it and start reading it randomly , by this time you will surely get to know what exactly you are looking for, after studying journal papers or information on different technologies and application , now again narrow down your selection and come to final conclusion of selecting a Single Project topic on which you would like to work.

NOW AT THIS POINT YOUR WORK IS HALF DONE.

Actual work of your project start now ,next step is  literature survey , now we will first understand what literature survey is , it is a process of knowing what are all the existing information or publications on one particular topic. So you collect all different types of information, publications, journal papers till date for a topic on which you decided  to work .

NOTE: While going through the literature survey focus on the most recent and latest information on your topic so that you find out the exact technology gap . Else it would be like , you work on exhaustive literature survey and come up with something and finally after a while or mid of you Project you understand, that your work already exists and you have wasted your time so far, so going through the latest information about the subject is very important.

After literature survey is done , now you are able to find what is the exact technology gap , what are the existing problems in present technology. so without finding out the problem in your project area, you cannot provide any solution to it , so by this time you should have found out the Problem Statement, list it out.

So next comes objectives of your project ,where you have to decide to improve some of the parameters or improve efficiency of the system looking at the problem statement listed above.

NOTE: Your objectives motive should be to find the solution to the problems that are defined in previous section , here the problem statement and objectives almost look alike but has different meaning . For example: In problem statement if u have found  system efficiency is 60% , then  objective of your project should be increasing the system efficiency to 70% or so.

List out all the objectives one side and understand how the parameters or efficiency or anything for that matter could be improved using different methods . so how you solve the problem by which technique must be explained in Methodology, the process of achieving your objective by making use of some techniques and software etc is called as methodology . Now this methodology should be explained only after objectives. Then lastly get some Results or outcome of your project .

Now write down the Conclusion on seeing all the results that you get in  the process of your Project, there will always be some scope of improvement to any project , so at last you can describe Future scope  of your Project , which could help you in future if u take up higher studies or it could help some one to find out how they can continue your work further.

Here as an example I have shared some schematic of what is been explained so far so that you will have the clear idea of selecting you Project topic. This schematic does not confine to one particular subject , I being from the background of Electrical Engineering I chose it .

I believe this information will help you out in having a clear idea of how the project topics are choosen, go through the information properly and start doing your project , when u understand the clear picture of anything that your going to do , half of the work is done at that point ,so i have phrased it at the start of the post that , well beginning is half done !

IT’S NEVER TOO LATE, TO START ANYTHING NEW

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WHY EDUCATING WOMEN IS VERY IMPORTANT ?

EDUCATING WOMEN IS VERY IMPORTANT. WOMAN EMPOWERMENT.
WHEN YOU EDUCATE A GIRL YOU EDUCATE A NATION”
“EACH ONE TEACH ONE

As this is my first blog post on my website , I feel privileged to take the platform  to share my views , thoughts and opinions, since my very early age I always liked to express my views and opinions on anything that would help others or myself personally. When I heard to someone sharing their viewpoints, I always felt there might be something they could have added to their content which would add up to the value of their information. I am very passionate to know more about the Education , Self-motivation, Spirituality and Overall Development of myself and also the society.

In my first post I would definitely love to share about Women Empowerment through Education. Me being a Women, at this point of  the day understands the fact of how important  it is to Educate Women and also Empower them.

Empowerment  could be defined in many ways but when it comes to Women ,according to me Empowerment means allowing Women to decide herself to choose what she wants. Not every Women is lucky like you and me ,so let us not forget to help others and if we could change atleast a very minimum things in their lives which are necessary for living, then we being Educated makes complete sense.

Let us first understand that Education is the basic right of everyone , when we say everyone we should not forget that woman is a part of this too. Women makes approximately 50% of the total population of the Nation .We cannot all Succeed when half of us are held back.

Education makes us a better human being by teaching us how to conduct ourselves through life by giving the sense of conscience. We all know Education teaches us the good things which are necessary for everyone to live .But I feel Education teaches us both good and bad , positive and negative, right and wrong above all it teaches us to understand what should be the choices of an individual in their life . A good Education teaches us to think ,what could be the consequences of the choices we do. It is the only process which never ends and it can be achieved at any time and at any age.

When we Educate ourselves we gain a knowledge of the world around us and it builds the capability of changing the world for better. Education develops the healthy perspective of looking at life and also helps in building the opinions and have our own point of views on the things in life.

Discrimination and Inequalities in the society start very firstly from our own houses , where boys are allowed to go schools and girls are deprived from education due to many reasons.

Empowering women with Education creates a strong power and confidence in their own life, society and their communities. When Women are Educated they are able to access the opportunities available to them without restrictions and limitations and this feeling of entitle to make their own decisions create a sense of Empowerment and Liberation

Improving girls education has a clear impact on a better society and Nation as a whole. As Educated Women has the skills, information and self confidence that she needs to be a better parent, employ and citizen too. Toady we see many successful Women in our society it is the absolute indication to know, that Women can do anything and everything provided she gets an opportunity to learn and choose.

I as a responsible Educated Women of this society will definitely try to helpout in every possible way to Educate not only Women but also all other people around me and I request all my viewers to do their part of the work too.

SO HOW DO WE DO THAT:

  • Creat awareness in every possible person around you
  • Educating men with the importance of women’s education is one step closer to women Empowerment because this is the place were it should start exactly
  • Make them understand the importance of education
  • Educate women with their fundamental rights
  • Speak for the people whose voices are unheard and  unnoticed
  • Help the NGO’s which works for the women Empowerment

Empowering isn’t about making women strong, Women are already strong. It’s  about giving them an opportunity to LEARN, CHOOSE and LIBERATE.

I would like to share some of the wonderful quotes by great personalities speaking upon Educating Women.

I measure the progress of a community by the degree of progress which women have achieved : DR.B.R.AMBEDKAR

Awake , Arise and Educate . Smash traditions- Liberate: SAVITRIBAI PULE

First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you , then you WIN: MAHATMA GANDHI

Mind set has more power than anything else in the world: SUDHA MURTHY

As women,we must stand up for ourselves. As women, we must stand up for eachother . As  women , we must stand up for justice for all : MICHELLE OBAMA

With guns you can kill terrorists ,with education you can kill terrorism: MALALA YOUSAFZAI

At last we should always remember that Education is one thing no one can take away from you If you Educate a Man , you Educate an Individual, but if you Educate a Women you Educate a Nation

I THANK ALL MY VISITORS WHO HAS PATIENTLY GONE THROUGH MY POST , HOPING THAT U AGREE FOR THE THINGS SAID ABOVE , I ASSURE U TO GET MORE AND MORE INFORMATION ON EDUCATION WHICH WOULD DEFINITELY HELP YOU AT SOME POINT OF UR LIFE.

                                                                       Thank you : With Regards: SUHASINI SHINDE  

When you invest in the girl, she repays back with interest to you , your family and society: SUHASINI SHINDE

Please go through my other articles 1. FAIL BIGGER RAISE STRONGER 2. CHOOSE YOUR WORDS WISELY 3. HOW TO SELECT PROJECT TOPIC

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